I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll und...

Sturgeon’s Law (“ninety percent of everything is crap”) applies to people just as much as it applies to entertainment or anything else. You don’t need to shut off your lust to figure that out.

And I agree without reservation that the vast majority of people, men and women both, are actually pretty boring.

Throughout my life, I’ve declined more offers of sex than I’ve accepted. Someone needs to be pretty extraordinary for me to want to have sex with her.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Okay, so. I have a reasonably active sex life. I am quite fond of lust, and tend to spend rather a lot of time on pursuits related to lust.

I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

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